Deal Breakers

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In my Op from yesterday, I had asked what the right age for marrying would be.  I got a lot of participation, thank you. šŸ˜Š

The subject of intolerance came up, and what would be a ā€œdeal breakerā€ for you in a new romantic relationship.  Deal breakers would be those things that you just cannot tolerate, and/or the other cannot tolerate in you, and that end up ruining the relationship in the early stages.

Question 1: Have you ever experienced a deal breaker in a romantic relationship?  If yes, how long did the ill-fated relationship last/continue?

Question 2: Were you the ā€˜eeā€™ or the ā€˜erā€™, meaning the victim or the perpetrator?  In other words, who ended up being the intolerant one?  You or the other person?  Or both?  Elaborate if you want.

Question 3: What do you consider a deal breaker(s)?  List your ā€œintolerance ofā€ item(s) regarding a new romantic relationship.

Thanks for posting and recommending.

(by Primordial ā€œsorry, no can tolerateā€ Soup)


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