Who will show up at the funeral you've arranged?

 



Yesterday, in Dear Abby's column, someone wrote bitterly that people she thought were "friends" failed to show up at her mother's funeral, after many years of going to birthday parties, graduations, and other get-togethers, and giving gifts and donations.  As so often happens in these letters, these self-anointed Good Gals seem to be reward-seekers and scorekeepers, rather then genuinely engaged as friends.  I put the following comment in the thread below:

"Unfortunately, persistent social laborers like the OP insist on plowing on with their social efforts without taking time to read the room. We could use a bit less scorekeeping and more Emily Post -- to say nothing of Maya Angelou ("When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.") Unfortunately, we won't believe them if we don't bother to see them, so we find ourselves without many friends, or any friends, when things get seriously tough. Always beware the love-bombing."

I just hope my tone isn't too hard on the OP.

Posted by Jennifer A. Nolan












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