10 XP on why we won't discuss slavery
"So we just agree not to discuss it at all. And if it does
come up, we agree to talk about something else instead. We don't really have a
good explanation for why, for instance, when the government provides a small
stipend to use specifically for food, that's a "handout", but when
the army depopulates an entire region of Native Americans, and the government
then offers secure legal title to the first person that can find, fence and
develop that land, that isn't a "handout". We just know that one is
always described as a "handout", while the other is never described
as such. And because we have no good answers for why that's the case, we've all
just agreed that the way to handle topics like "racism" and
"slavery" is to treat them as the social equivalent of picking one's
nose in public and eating it. It's a sign of gaucheness in many circles to
openly discuss these things.
"I mean, if you're looking for solutions, the solution is . .
. let's agree to be uncomfortable sometimes? It's not a topic that invites
"solutions" in the general sense, because it's really just a social
norm that we are consciously choosing not to honor any more. We are choosing to
look at the stuff that the government hands "Americans" as a default,
and allowing ourselves to recognize how outraged we'd be if those same policies
were designed to primarily benefit people of color. When it benefits PoC, it's
denigrated as "40 acres and mule." But when it benefits people who
look like us, we make Broadway musicals out of it. And we kind of need to be
willing to sit with, and understand, just how easy it is for every one of us to
miss that the only real difference between those two things is the beneficiary."
10 XP to 👨: "And here we have the primary reason why our
schoolchildren have such an issue with learning about slavery: because very
early on, they learn that the adults are completely unwilling to discuss the
matter save in trying to deflect away from it, and are only too happy to change
the subject to anything else, no matter how irrelevant, so that we don't
actually discuss slavery.
"The Cherokee also owned slaves. So what? Native Americans,
just like most other cultures, practiced a form of slavery that was radically
distinct from the version practiced in America. So what? No, really, so what? This is relevant to the
discussion about how slavery was an institutionalized practice that led to huge
accumulations of wealth and political power at the expense of the slaves . . .
how?
"All they really learn from their teachers is that slavery is
a verboten topic of discussion, for some reason. And that "some
reason" is primarily because if we actually discussed how deeply embedded
slavery was in the culture, and the law, and the root assumptions of who was
entitled to the blessings of liberty, and who was truly "equal" under
the law, in 1860, they'd see rather uncanny and disturbing similarities to how
we perceive African-Americans today."
Posted by Jennifer A. Nolan
